The "story behind the desk"...

I had a great weekend. Great friends, great times, great experiences. The desert safari was a blast even though I had already been, I was able to see it all again through new eyes. Especially the eyes of a special 4 year old who would now like a camel of her own. You can contact me for your donation…I’m sure her mother would be appreciative!

I apologize for not posting my own pics yet, but I am sure that Ryan’s surpasses them anyways. It was actually when I was downloading a pic that he took to my phone so that I could post it as a profile pic on Facebook, did the whole story behind the desk begin. Still sleepy, I heard buzzes from my charging phone. I crashed on a very comfortable couch in Al Ain and I wasn’t about to move far. When I was posting the pic, one of the buzzes I noticed was from a ‘swap and shop’ group that I belong to. I have purchased most of my stuff new, but you never know when you can get a deal from someone who is leaving town and has to sell their stuff. The item that caught my attention was a desk for 400 dirhams. It was simple. It was white. It was going to match my bed, I had to get it. I contacted the seller, told her I was in Al Ain for the rest of the day and I would contact her when I got back to Abu Dhabi. Not a problem. I was already starting to make my list of what to do when I got back. Getting a tv was also one of those things as I have been paying for the service, I might as well get a tv to enjoy it!

On the way back to Abu Dhabi, there is a long desert road. There are little towns on either side, but the majority of the landscape is sand dune after sand dune. It’s almost hypnotizing. It was a bright sunny day out here (surprise surprise), and the radio was playing awesomeness such as Shaggy’s “Shabba” and Snow’s “Informer”. Nothing like being a white girl blasting those tracks and bee bopping away in her little roller skate of a car doing about a buck thirty. About half way there, I notice a truck in the ‘slow lane’. I was about to pass him, but then a shiny white Lexus SUV veered from behind me to behind the truck. I was trying to slow down to let him in front of me, but strangely, he wasn't’t moving. It was getting to the point where I would have to pass both him and the truck. Fine. Motoring along I notice his window roll down and horn starting to blaze. Going about 100 km/hr with your window down, there is nothing you’re going to hear in a conversation. He tried to signal me to move on and pull over to the side. Hmmm…I think I can assume by what he was driving and what he was wearing, that he would definitely know the desert better than I and wasn't in any dire need. I tried to ignore him. Passing the truck, he tried again. I waved him on and tried to say I was sorry. After all, I don’t think anyone would have been able to hear my screams in the barren desert. He sped off and I was ok…a little weirded out but okay.

Getting into the city, I now made getting a tv a priority before finally heading home. I found what I wanted and more at Marina Mall along the Corniche. How independent I thought? White girl in the desert driving from town to town, just bought a tv and was now going to install it all on her own! It took a few trips up to the flat on floor #13, but eventually, all my stuff was here. I tore open the box, excited with my new electronic, and begin looking at assembly instructions and making sure it had all of the contents that it said it was going to. Perfect. About a minute later I realized I was stuck. Screw driver needed? This time a flat butter knife nor steak knife would work. Luckily on my floor, I live next to a handy guy from the UK that came in the group after me, surely he wouldn't mind? Of course not…the next thing I realized I was making tea for him and I as he got down to business.

My phone went off. Oh yes…the desk that I noticed while I was still in Al Ain. The seller let me know that she was on Reem Island as well. Perfect. Wait…if she’s on Reem Island as well, it’s grand that it’s close…but worth it to hire a moving company for a simple Ikea-ish desk? Nah. I asked my handy friend. He suggested that he and Shakeel go and get it in the next day or so. It really is only 2 buildings over…no sense in hiring anyone…right? I messaged Shakeel later to let him know that his services had been volunteered.

The next day dragged on a bit, but no matter, I was coming home to friends and a desk! Unfortunately, our handy friend could not make it that day. So, it looked like Shakeel and I were upto our own devices to get the desk. No matter, we’re strong enough for this, right? He brought his car around (he lives with his family on the end of the island), and said that the desk would probably fit in his newly rented Carolla. I looked doubtfully at the back…

We met the seller from the 12^th floor in Beach Towers. Simple enough. White, 2 shelves that can be taken out…easy peasy lemon squeezy. The two of us carried that without a problem. I was convinced that we were going to have to walk the desk back to Gate. Shakeel on the other hand, was still convinced that this desk was going to fit in the back of the car as long as the seats were down. Sedans are great with a lot of room…it’s the size of the doors that presented the problem. We tried, 1, 2, 3, 4…maybe a 5^th time before Shakeel finally gave up. He parked his car again…and we were off lugging this thing a few blocks. It was about 530 at this point. The sun was just about to set, and the streets were full of construction and migrant workers.

“There, you see him? Why don’t you hire him?”

“Shut up, Shakeel.”

“There’s one with a truck, he can help you out. The back of his truck actually says ‘for hire’!.”

“Shut up, Shakeel.”

Shakeel’s Melody: “White girl carrying a desk with a Pakistani guy, from Beach to Gate, what were they thinking?”

When you’re carrying anything of weight, it just gets heavier with laughter. Those of you in Gate, Beach, or Amaya towers and happened to pass us on the way home, I’m sure it was clear what we were doing, but I didn't wave as I was focusing on where we were going and not smacking him.

So, I now have a desk. I have a working tv that sits properly on a stand. And I stop my car for nothing in the desert outside of an injured animal. Not sure if I’m down a friend or not, LOL. Nah, as I said, I owe him one…he and his family still have furniture to get too…oh boy…I smell another blog and it hasn't even happened yet!

a facebook status that may have needed further explanation, lol

England V Canada...

I apologize for a certain Facebook status. It was meant to get your attention, but not cause worry. On the contrary, I don’t think I’ve laughed this much in a long time. From a few comments, I knew some of you are on the same crazy wavelength as I am sometimes!

Ok, first…how did I end up touring a stranger around Abu Dhabi? When you get to an international hub like Abu Dhabi, the majority of the people you meet were not born here. In fact, 80% of the population are expats like me who came here from somewhere else. Anyways, one of my good friends here is of Pakistani descent, but was born and raised in the UK. I’ve mentioned him before in the blogs, and again, thank goodness that I have his permission, but I’ll leave his name out of things to protect the innocent…and perhaps the guilty? (LOL).  I don’t mean to sound presumptuous, but when a friend of his from the UK rang him up and asked if he could take his wife’s nephew out on the town while he was here in town on a 15 hour layover from Pakistan, somehow I wasn’t surprised. Families, relationships, even if it is with people you haven’t met before are acceptable to just meet up with. We had a great time going to a mall, shisha at the Corniche and talking about our experiences in Abu Dhabi so far.

So, how did we get pulled over by the police? Don’t worry mom and dad…I wasn’t driving. In the car were both of my Pakistani-Brit friends (including the one on the 15 hour layover). I was in the back, the guys were in the front. I have a few thoughts on this one as to why we were pulled over. The obvious, is that a certain person who was driving forgot to put his lights on. It was at night, and driving without your lights is dangerous no matter where you are. Abu Dhabi is so lit up at night; it would have been easy to miss to put your lights on. While driving however, if someone doesn’t see you…yikes. People cut each other off left and right here. If this is why they pulled us over, than I am thankful to the Abu Dhabi police on patrol that night. My other thought is that it just may have had to do with the ‘race card’…a white girl in the back of a car with 2 brown guys? Better check this out. When we heard the siren and saw the flashing lights, we immediately pulled over. He instructed us to keep going so that we were in the next divot in the road where the taxis and buses go. We waited for the officer (that’s what we do back home, right? We dare not get out of the car?) He instructed the driver to get out of the car and then go to him! Bringing his licence and rental registration with him, the cop looked at him and said, “hmmm….you Pakistani?” 

“No, sir. I am British. Here is my license from England”.

“You look Pakistani to me”. 

He let us off with a warning to put our lights back on. I am sure if we had been here much longer and we showed our Emirates ID (which will hopefully be in any day now), we likely would have been fined. Regardless if why we were pulled over, I rest knowing that our police are on the job and alert despite the crazy driving skills I’ve been witness to!

Hmm…so where does that leave us? Ah, the police report. My poor Pakistani-Brit friend! There may be multiple versions of this one. The short story is that his car had been hit and scratched from bumper to bumper while parked. The car was rented, so he contacted Hertz and let them know. On the advice of one of our friends, he brought me along (female), to hopefully soften the blow when talking to the police behind the desk at the headquarters.

When we went to get the car, the police officer asked, “Where is your car?”

Down there, sir”.

“Good, you go bring it to me and I take photos.”

Whether he wanted a smoke break in the meantime or whatnot, we were just taken away again to go TO the police rather than have them come and escort you. I think we got to the police station at around 7 and they closed at 8. They were all ready to go home anyways and I don’t think it mattered much what we said or if I was there in this instance, they just wanted to get out of there as much as we did.

What else? Ah yes, on one of these other crazy nights, we made our way down to the post office to see if our Emirates ID was in. Walking in, we were instructed to take separate numbers and to have a seat. I sat where I thought I was instructed to. I sat beside a gentleman and I felt eyes on me. “Psssssst!” My friend tried to get my attention from where he was sitting, but I must have been in my own little world.

He walked across the room, “CARA!”

“What!?”

*sigh*, “Cara, get over there to the back. You’re sitting in the mens’ section!”

Ugh. My face went red and I literally had to go and find my place beside the other women waiting to be served in a public office. It would have been worth the trip had our IDs been in. Maybe next time. Our passports are finally in that will be picked up next week. It will be nice to have that particular document back again!

an adventure around every corner...

Last night I was able to attend the FINALS game of the U-17 FIFA World Cup in Abu Dhabi. What an experience! Those of you back home must have thought that the tickets would have been ridiculously costly. I am sure that they would have been. Let this be another amazing thing to bring back to you about the cultural heritage here. The President wanted to bring football to the masses, especially football from the world stage. Tickets to all games…were free. Getting seats was a bit of a free for all, but I wouldn’t have changed it for the world. This was my first live football match. What a time to check one out!

There was a group of 4 of us. This was quite the eclectic group. 3 Canadians and a Brit…and I was the only white girl…of our group and of our entire half of the stadium. There may have been a few white fans on the other side there to support Denmark in the ceremony at the end for their 3^rd place win, but I may have been mistaken. To be able to talk to the person next to you was almost impossible. I looked around and texted “I feel so white!” to my friend next to me. “It’s ok he said, I think it’s time you’ve become an “honorary brown girl”. Ah, the racist jokes and puns. If only Russell Peters could be around us some days!

The roars of the crowd were deafening at times. We weren’t able to sit with the four of us together, but we found 2 sets of 2. Despite the craziness, the crowd would happily move over for you if there was room in the row. Our seats were reserved on the other side, but security was tight into where they were letting people go no matter what your ticket was saying, so we were just happy to sit at that point. I was surprised on the security. There were personnel at every stairway and entrance to each section, and military were walking around as well. Military here aren’t in a green camouflage, but blue. Kinda neat. I was surprised, and the group was talking about this later on…it was good that security was so tight. After all, I am sure Abu Dhabi wanted to impress FIFA to have the U-17 back again.

Abu Dhabi is the perfect set up for professional tournaments like this. I have seen a number of stadiums around town, but I hadn’t seen Mohammed Bin Zayed Stadium before, and I am sure there are plenty more. With so many facilities in such a condensed area, scheduling and locations would have been easy for organizers. 

I love the married couple that I was with. They’re from Scarborough and have actually been placed on my floor. The people you meet here are simply amazing. We went to a popular place in town to eat afterward. We had intended on eating at the stadium, but I wasn’t about to leave my coveted seat once I sat down. We ate at the Lebanese Flower…a nice restaurant with a common budget. We were able to sit upstairs. Funny when revelations can come to you. I had been to this restaurant one other time, but not upstairs. The stairs seemed to glitter with exotic plants from the area leading the way. Anything could be up these stairs. I know, it was another dining room, but it was another passage that I had to uncover. Every single corner, room, hallway, staircase, is somewhere I’ve never been before. There have been more ‘firsts’ for me in the last month and a half than there has been in 15 years. Everything has been a sense of adventure…

Interesting things about Abu Dhabi so far...

“Have you been to the Corniche area yet?”

“No, I've been meaning to though.”

“Oh yeah, it’s beautiful, totally a sight to see.” She glanced over to the right while keeping an eye on traffic and pointed, “See that? It’s the old boardwalk, that’s where the beach area used to be. But they didn't like it, so they moved it.”

“What?”

“Yes, they moved the beach.” The puzzled look on my face must have been funny to see for a person who has been here a few years. She continued, “I guess the sand wasn’t as fine or as white as they wanted, so they imported sand from another country and created a better beach in a more desirable location closer to the Emirates Palace”.

I was starkly reminded once again just how far away from home I am…

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Life here in AD is simply interesting. There’s no other way to put it. It can be great, it can be frustrating, and it can be having moments where you don’t know what in the world is going on around you. Put this all together, I came up with ‘interesting’. This past week or so has been crazy in the city and surrounding areas. Loved ones from home are naturally attracted to events they may see on the news that happen to have a connection to AD and the UAE in general. I was recently talking to my mom, and she mentioned that she saw the U17 FIFA world cup was going on. Oh yes, I said, and this week we had the Grand Prix. I also mentioned thousands of men coming ashore from Her Majesty’s Navy. “I’m surprised the island doesn't sink!” she exclaimed. Yes, I love my mother.

You can say that I’m one of those people who are in their own world when it comes to walking around town or in the malls. I like to people watch when I am sitting still and/or eating, but when I am walking around, my focus is on where I am going and how to get there. I had been getting attention that I wasn’t aware of and now I am reminded that I am in a minority situation. The other night, I went to visit this Corniche area I mentioned earlier. I went with a friend who was born in the UK, but he is of Pakistani background. Luckily, I have his permission to blog about this. I hope you find the humour in it as much as we did. AD is a conservative country, so as a woman, particularly a white woman, you just have to be careful in how you handle yourself. We were walking from a café on the waterfront back to the car. He was a few feet in front of me. I was covered with a long skirt down to my ankles and a modest top. That still didn`t seem to make a difference. The street lights are very bright, and most of the cars are white, easy to see into. “They’re looking at you!” he said. I glanced up and it was car after car of men smiling/laughing and pointing. Whether this was in a positive context or not, I am not sure. I just wanted to get back in the car. My Pakistani friend, however, found it entertaining enough to start singing George Costanza style in his own creation of “brown Pakistani guy/white Canadian woman walking to the car…” rendition of this humiliation. I wanted to crawl under a rock! Ah, thank goodness for friends, eh?

No connection to the above, but one last thing on today’s blog I thought I would mention is the striking paradox between demanding customers and it being a culture of ‘service’. The people in the service industry are kind and genuine. It is almost as if they cannot do enough for you. Trying a traditional Indian restaurant earlier this week, my rice was poured for me. You will be asked if everything is alright more than once with suggestions of more they can do for you. For some reason, however, this does not apply to picking up the check…you have to ask for that, and often more than once. Despite this service, the customers never seem satisfied. I have already been witness to a number of customer complaints that for back home would seem ridiculous. The servers behind the counters (food, grocery, phone, etc) are apologetic no matter what. In my experience, the customers that I’ve seen are simply complaining for nothing. One instance, a man was yelling at a guy behind the Tim Horton’s counter. He was upset that he wasn't served right away (there was one man in front of him who was indecisive). Apparently the clerk behind the counter was wrong to give the person in front of the line priority. When the upset customer and his wife left, I apologized to the clerk that he had to get yelled at. “No worries, ma’am…it happens all the time. It’s OK”. Ugh. I was infuriated. I’m not here to change the world in its ways; I can only lead by example.

This week coming up promises to be exciting. I will be stopping by the council to pick up my keys to my new apartment. I will be housed in a complex called “Gate Towers” on Reem Island (Reem, meaning ‘beautiful’ in Arabic). Teaching here isn't easy, but I look forward to driving home to this place. I have high hopes to be on a higher floor for the better views. There are 65 storeys in all! Now to continue shopping for the essentials… Wanna peak?

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